Thursday, February 2, 2012

Character

My grandfather always said to me:

-KEEP A GOOD NAME-

I've carried this with me all my life.  Always remembering to act and speak responsibly.  Always being considerate to others while striving to leave the best impression.

When people think of you it is not your income, house, or car that grabs their attention.  The real focus is on how you make them feel.  Your NAME, your Character impacts people on the most personal level.

Every interaction you have with people produces an emotional reaction and a lasting impression with them.  That is why it is important to know the secrets to displaying your best Character Traits. 

CHARACTER GUIDELINES:


  • Attitude and Posture: how you carry yourself, stand, and approach others.
  • Acknowledge the existence of others: say hello and smile.
  • Remember facts told to you by people.  And repeat them back.  You care enough to remember.
  • Ask Personal Questions.
  • Eye Contact! 
  • Smile Often.
  • Say the person's name as often as possible.
  • Open Doors.
  • Be available but display your busyness at all times.  This shows you would go out of your way to help.
  • Don't Gossip.
  • Be goofy, spontaneous, and fun to be around.  Levity is always appreciated.
  • Keep Good Company.  People judge you by your friends.

This is just a jump off point for you.  By now you've already established a NAME for yourself.  But it is never too late to shine and polish your character a little.  Think of these Guidelines as a good reminder to the importance of your words and action in every interaction.

Be a light.  Be warm.  Loving.  Funny.  Remember-able.  And Full of Life.

1 comment:

  1. Johnny Pearman I can honestly say that after meeting you I feel that I have run with the wrong crowd for far too long!

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